layer upon layer

 

Like most of you, I was horrified to awaken on Sunday morning to news of a second mass shooting in less than two days this weekend. El Paso and Dayton. As reality started to sink in, it occurred to me how many layers there are to these stories.

"Man is unique in

organizing the mass murder

of his own species."

~Aldous Huxley~

The unfathomable grief blanketing the friends and families of the victims. The shock. The anger, fear, and sorrow they will shoulder for the rest of their lives.

"No one ever told me

that grief felt so like fear."

~CS Lewis~

The aftermath of trauma the survivors face. The pain. The scars. The horror.

"I'm standing in the ashes

of who I used to be."

~Mallika Dodeja~

 

You have to wonder if the courage and resolve it took for first responders to act at the scene didn't falter just a bit. Maybe, a lot. You have to wonder how those images are carved into their psyches. Into their hearts.

 

And who doesn't want to know what drove two young men to commit mass murder in the first place? Not to excuse them or to forgive them, but to understand how something like that takes root in a human heart. To fathom what it takes to plant the seeds of hatred, violence, and dispassion in the mind of someone who was born an innocent child?

 

What about the parents and families of these two men? Mystery abounds. Speculation grows. Will we ever know the truth? Will we ever hear their stories?

 

"There is no greater agony

than bearing an untold story

inside you."

~Maya Angelou~

 

What about the nurses and doctors who dropped everything to tend to the mass influx of trauma patients on short notice. How did they get through it?
 

Does it help those of us who practice narrative medicine to tell our stories? Does anyone benefit from hearing them? What can we learn from victims and patients? What can killers teach us?

 

SUDDEN

~by Nick Flynn~

 

If it had been a heart attack, the newspaper

might have used the word massive,

as if a mountain range had opened

inside her, but instead

 

it used the word suddenly, a light coming on

 

in an empty room. The telephone

 

fell from my shoulder, a black parrot repeating

something happened, something awful

 

a sunday, dusky. If it had been

terminal, we could have cradled her

as she grew smaller, wiped her mouth,

 

said good-bye. But it was sudden,

 

how overnight we could be orphaned

& the world become a bell we'd crawl inside

& the ringing all we'd eat.

 

jan