defending our right to write

 

There is no question that women's reproductive rights are under assault, again. Whether you choose to defend the rights of the unborn or to support the freedom of women to choose, the battle lines have been drawn. There will be no surrender. 

If, like me, you harbor strong beliefs about the impending overturn of Roe v. Wade, you may feel helpless to be heard. Political debate hasn't changed anything. Demonstrations haven't changed anyone's mind. Social media has only inflamed the issue. What are we to do?

"The emphasis must be

not on the right to abortion,

but on the right to privacy and

reproductive control."

~Ruth Bader Ginsberg~ 

I don't know what you will do, but I chose to write.

This is a copy of the letter I mailed to every Republican senator this week:

The Honorable…

United States Senate

Washington, DC 20510

 

May 8, 2022

 

Dear Senator …,

I am writing to you regarding my concerns should the Senate move to undermine the reproductive rights of women by overturning the 1973 United States Supreme Court decision on Roe v. Wade.

I am a physician with over thirty years of experience in Family Medicine so I am familiar with the issues that impact the accessibility, efficacy, and safety of women’s health care. I am also the mother of three adult children, and a grandmother to three youngsters, so I know a lot about the sanctity of a woman’s body and her reproductive rights.

As a physician, it is my duty and privilege to assist my patients with the difficult decisions they have to navigate when it comes to health care. Whether or not it is safe to vaccinate their children. Whether or not to sign the Do Not Resuscitate order. Whether to carry an unintended pregnancy to term, especially in the case of rape/incest, or contraceptive failure. I don’t make these decisions for my patients. I educate them. I guide them through a maze of questions and concerns, some of which they might not otherwise have considered. Together we look at the pros and cons, the advantages and disadvantages, and the risk of unfavorable outcomes when we explore their treatment options. I don’t coerce them, or manipulate them, or mislead them to satisfy my personal, political, or religious agenda. I listen to the stories they share with me, and I respect the decisions they make for themselves.

It's not that I don't hold strong beliefs about a woman's reproductive freedom. I do. I am not declaring my support for, or my opposition to abortion. It is not my role, my duty, or my intention to impose my beliefs on anyone. Nor should you.

At the heart of Roe v. Wade is a woman’s right to decide for herself about elective abortion. Most of us will never have to confront this decision, but our daughters may, and our granddaughters may. The next time you give you daughter a hug, the next time you sweep your granddaughter into your arms, imagine her as a victim of rape. If you vote to overturn Roe v. Wade, be absolutely certain you are willing to watch her suffer. To make her suffer. Ask yourself if you will embrace her child of rape with the unconditional love you feel for your own children.

Because this is my fear. I fear for the infants born to these women. That they will be neglected, rejected, and abused because the color of their skin, or the texture of their hair, or their facial features mark them as different. As undesirable. As unlovable. I worry that they will end up in our emergency departments, abandoned on our streets, or cast off into the trash. How will we care for the ones who survive? Who will care for them? You cannot claim to support the right to life of the unborn unless you have a plan in place to protect and care for them after birth. 

I worry, too, that women will, once again, be forced into back alleys and basements in a desperate and dangerous effort to terminate these pregnancies. That we will see a resurgence of the septic abortions and mutilations that compelled us to support women’s safety and well-being by passing Roe v. Wade in the first place. I am afraid the next generation will manifest a whole new class of traumatized, angry, and abandoned women and children.

But that’s not the only problem I anticipate. The decision to revoke the protections and human rights of women will set a new legislative precedent. It will confer authority to outliers and men in power to unilaterally eliminate the protections we have put in place to support immigrants and asylum seekers. To prevent gun violence. To feed the hungry and shelter the homeless. To access affordable health care, and to protect our privacy.

If Roe v. Wade falls, it will bring our constitutional democracy to its knees, a democracy that has flourished not in spite of, but because of, its diversity, inclusivity, and vision for over 200 years. Indeed, we have already witnessed the violation of basic human rights, the corruption of justice, and a surge in violence and fear among our most vulnerable citizens in the name of political power, self-proclaimed entitlement, and hatred.

This is not the America you and I grew up in. It is not the same country that bestowed upon us a path to success, security, and freedom. How can we deny it to others?

As a United States Senator, you are in a position to change the course of history as it is being written. Will you allow yourself to surrender to men who are hungry for power and control over the reproductive freedoms of women they don’t even know? Why are you afraid to stand up to them? Has your heart hardened against the humanity you are part of? What scares you about defending the rights of women? What prevents you from acting out of dignity, purpose, and principle?

When did you fold?

For the sake of all women and children, out of compassion for all who suffer, and in the name of human rights, I implore you to reconsider your support of the Republican leadership on this important issue. Vote to uphold Roe v. Wade. Do what is honorable, compassionate, and just, or explain to us why you refuse.

Thank you for your attention and consideration.

Yours,

Janet F. Cincotta, M.D.

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I chose to write not because I believe my words will actually make any difference, or change anyone's mind. I don't. It isn't important to me that anyone is impressed by what I have to say. Nor do I judge or condemn anyone whose convictions contradict mine. I wrote because it is the one thing I can do, and I strongly believe each of us should do something--whatever we can--to preserve social justice, defend democratic principles, and sustain the balance of power in this country. 

"The measure of a man

is what he does with power."

~Plato~

jan