Tuesday, February 1, 2022

a battle worth fighting



If you have dedicated your life to work in the field of health care, chances are it was more than the prospect of a secure income that motivated you to spend so many additional years studying and preparing when your friends were already out in the world. Earning money. Cultivating a social life. Even starting a family. Perhaps you come from a long line of nurses or doctors and felt the pressure of expectation to continue the tradition. Maybe you were attracted by the prospect of authority and prestige. Perhaps you pursued medicine or nursing out of a heartfelt desire to do good in the world. To help people heal. Or because you felt called to this line of work.

"The two most important days in your life
are the day you are born
and the day you find out why."
~Mark Twain~

If medicine is your calling in life and you know it, good for you! But if your purpose in life is not yet clear to you, if you're not sure what you were put on Earth to do, or who to be, or why it makes any difference, you might want to start thinking about it. Otherwise you may find yourself wandering through life without a clear path forward. Chasing after someone else's expectations for you. Investing time and effort in something that offends your sense of right and wrong. Striving for something that is meaningless to you or harmful to others. 

If you have been contemplating your sacred calling in life but still feel lost, or you've been avoiding the issue because you don't know where to start, I highly recommend Stephen Cope's new book, "The Dharma in Difficult Times".


In it, he illustrates the teachings of the great Hindu text, the Bhagavad Gita, through the lives of dedicated visionaries including Gandhi, Thoreau, Sojourner Truth, and Marion Anderson, among others, all of them committed to non-violent resistance/activism. How did they discern their sacred calling? What were they willing to sacrifice to achieve their goal? How did they apply the principles of non-violence to their efforts? What was the outcome?

Why is this important? Because we all have a sacred calling, a duty to ourselves, to others, and to the planet, whether we care to embrace it or not. Sooner or later each of us will be confronted with a dilemna that will require us to discern right from wrong, truth from untruth, whether to follow the crowd or to stand up for what we believe and value. Each of us needs to decide if this is a challenge we are willing to accept. A goal worth pursuing. A battle worth fighting. 

"Tell me,
what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life."
~Mary Oliver~

I believed medicine was my sacred calling in life. I ignored the naysayers who insisted women weren't meant for it. That I would regret my decision. That I would fail at it. Instead, I made the sacrifices that were necessary to do the work I chose. Diligently and without fanfare. For over thirty years.

What about you? Where are you on your journey? To what cause do you feel a sacred duty? Cope states: 

"Sacred duty is the thing that
 if you do not do it,
you will feel a profound sense of self-betrayal."
~Stephen Cope~
 
Is it health care? Climate change? Racism? World hunger? Cruelty to animals?

All of the above?

How will you make a difference?

"Be the change you wish to see
in the world."
~Mahatma Gandhi~
jan




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