variations on a theme

Let’s say you have three patients who are battling cancer.

One is devastated by the diagnosis. She is overwhelmed by fear and dread. Convinced her situation is hopeless, she resists starting chemo. She just wants to die. Her doctor suggests an anti-depressant.

"Once you choose hope,

anything is possible."

~Christopher Reeve~~

One is a man of deep faith. He is convinced that God has the power to cure him even though his prognosis is unfavorable. He devotes himself to prayer and sacrifice because he believes that will earn him God’s mercy. Even when his cancer spreads, he clings to his faith. It gives him hope and a sense of optimism right up until he is forced to surrender to the disease. His doctor tries to be respectful of his faith, but he can’t shake off his own doubts about it.

"Cancer didn't bring me

to my knees.

It brought me to my feet."

~Michael Douglas~

The other patient is f***ing pissed off about it. She is not about to lose this battle. After all, she has a husband and children at home. It isn’t fair to them. She agrees to an aggressive plan of treatment that includes surgery, radiation and chemotherapy. She begins a program of exercise, diet, and meditation, and she adopts a practice of loving self-care. She is determined to beat this thing. Her doctor encourages her even though he doesn't indulge in self-care, himself.

"You never know how strong you are

until being strong is

the only choice you have."

~Bob Marley~

Three different patients with the same disease, and three different stories. What difference does it make? There is an abundance of literature concerning the factors that affect a patient’s quality of life during treatment for cancer and how this correlates with his likelihood of recovery. Some factors are immutable: age, gender, and family history, for example. Others are modifiable: emotional and attitudinal factors, dietary factors, level of fitness, faith, and social support.

Given their stories, the physician will approach each of these patients differently, even though each of them has the same fundamental needs: education, encouragement, and support.

When is the last time you had to convince a patient to enter treatment? When is the last time you offered to pray for--or with--a patient?

When is the last time you practiced self-care?

"Self-care is a 

divine responsibility."

~Danielle La Porte~

                                                                                                                                                  jan