unspoken forces at work

Hippocrates is the one who advised physicians, "First, do no harm." Cicero proclaimed, "The safety of the people shall be the highest law"...lofty principles that, to this day, both challenge and inspire health care professionals.

It was Paraclesus, though, who declared, "The physician should speak of what is invisible...He becomes a physician only when he knows that which is unnamed, invisible, and immaterial, yet has its effects." He was speaking, of course, about the impact of the patient's thoughts, feelings, and emotions on his experience of injury and illness. On his ability to heal. These include his fears, expectations, and hopes...all invisible. All unspoken.

"O, what an untold world

there is in one human heart."

~Harriett Beecher Stowe~

In his book, "The Wise Heart," Jack Kornfield reminds us that the key to healing has to do with the patient's understanding of his illness. What is he fearful about? Why? What does he think will happen to him? How will he support his family? Who will take care of her children? It turns out making the diagnosis is sometimes the easy part. Uncovering the patient's hidden fears can be harder.

"You'd be surprised

what lengths people will go to

not to face what is real and painful 

inside them."

~Ian Kester~

For example, let's say a patient presents with breast cancer. She is forty-eight years old, two years older than her mother was when she was diagnosed. But her mother died following surgery and a full course of radiation and chemotherapy. This is what scares her. She jumps to the conclusion that this is her fate as well, despite the fact that her mother's cancer was far more advanced when it was detected. Despite the fact that treatment has improved in the twenty years since her mother's diagnosis. The patient's initial reaction to her diagnosis may be to give up right then and there...her unnamed, invisible, and immaterial thoughts, feelings, and emotions left unchecked. And unspoken.

"Your body hears everything

your mind says."

~Naomi Judd~

Or, let's say the patient is a middle-aged man who schedules a ten minute appointment with you so he can get something for his heartburn. But he isn't simply experiencing indigestion. He is actually having angina, and it's getting worse. He has convinced himself that it's just his stomach because the thought of a heart attack scares him. His brother had one last year, and ended up with a pacemaker and a defibrillator. His ten minute appointment includes an EKG and blood work, and it stretches into a forty-five minute dialogue about unstable angina and the need for hospitalization. He tries to laugh it off, but beneath his cavalier manner, he fears for his life. His family. His business. All of it invisible. All of it unspoken.

"A physician is obligated to consider

more than a diseased organ,

more than even the whole man.

He must view the man in his world."

~Harvey Cushing~

Clues to the unspoken forces at work in the patient's life include refusal of, or noncompliance with treatment. Denial, anger, impatience, or resistance. Reticence. Despair. 

The health care provider should handle these patients with care. Ask about their fears, expectations, and perceptions. Take time to speak about what you intuit to be unnamed, invisible, and unspoken. Do whatever you can to help him tell his whole story.

"Anything will give up its secrets

if you love it enough."

~George Washington Carver~

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